May
23, 2003
by David Streit, former Director - End User Support,
Corporate Finance, Deutsche Bank
Unless you’re a hermit or a prisoner in solitary confinement,
you meet people constantly, and in a myriad of settings, not
just at networking events, but at the movies, at class reunions,
etc. Don’t miss out on any of these opportunities to establish
valuable one-to-one connections that can pay off big in your job
search. The techniques you use to meet and interact with other people
can help you build a wealth of contacts.
You
can influence the growth of your network. To do so, follow these
guidelines of good networking technique:
1. Start with
the people who care about you, then through them move outward to
other people who know other people who would care about you. The
idea is to form the right associations, as opposed to connecting
directly to the people further out on the periphery via directory
listings. Family, friends, neighbors, former employers, temple or
church members, professional association colleagues, are all good
people to start with.
2. Network with
an agenda in mind— a sense of where you are going and what
you want from your contacts. If you’re looking for a job,
be prepared to tell them in a brief pitch the kind of job you want.
3. Get used
to networking with everyone you meet by assuming others want to
network with you— no matter where you meet them! That means
making yourself available and accessible. Smile to the person next
to you in line at the theatre or in the checkout line at the grocery
store. Offer a suggestion about things to do in the area if you
happen to hear a patron from out-of-town ask a hotel concierge about
area events.
4. If your agenda
is to find a job or look for sales leads, ALWAYS have business cards
on your person and accessible. Have resumes and brochures in your
briefcase. Know your pitch *cold* so you can convey your agenda
to anyone you meet at any time. Then, FOLLOW-UP with a phone call,
a letter, an email, or a visit to firm up your relationship.
5. Plan your
approach at networking events. Arrive at meetings early and introduce
yourself to other early-birds and the event organizers. Similarly,
don't leave meetings early – you can introduce yourself to
people afterwards and talk about the meeting.
6. Keep your
word with contacts. Follow-up if a contact arranges for you to call
someone else about a job.
7. Do something
for the other person – go out of your way to demonstrate consideration
for the other person. You can build your relationship with that
person by sending a relevant article or referral. This is also important
to ensure you’re not forgotten. Circle back every two or three
months to your contacts with whom you have strong relationships
and express your gratitude for their earlier help – not just
stating again what you want. These efforts maintain your relationship.
9. There’s
nothing wrong with asking your contacts for help – people
usually want to help. Tell your neighbors you’re looking for
a new job – they can’t help you if they don’t
know you’re out of work.
10. While you
should have an agenda for the results you want out of your network,
remember you must GIVE first in order to get people to reciprocate.
Only then will you get the long-term payoff. Do things for people,
and they will do things for you.
© David
Streit, 2003
About the Author:David Streit was most recently a Director and
the lead technologist for the U.S. Mergers and Acquisitions (M&A)
Group of Deutsche Bank, where he was responsible for M&A technology,
desktop and server support, and End User Services Manager for Corporate
Finance at the former 280 Park office. Mr. Streit has previously
worked as a senior PC analyst at Morgan Stanley; a lead project
analyst in the MIS applications group for Deloitte & Touche;
a senior manager responsible for tax computer support and technology
for the New York tax practice of Deloitte & Touche; and as an
independent PC consultant. Mr. Streit received his BA from Lehigh
University, and his MBA from Rutgers University. Mr. Streit has
been a member of Technology Managers Forum since its inception in
1994. David can be reached at streida@optonline.net.
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